Welcome to The Relationship Resource

Renewing Minds - Restoring Hearts

Jeff Reinke, a Marriage and Family Pastor for over 20 years, was the initial driving force behind The Relationship Resource. Looking for ways to better support individuals and couples in making long-term, lasting changes in their lives, Jeff turned to Gary Oliver Ph.D., Dr. Terry & Sharon Hargrave, and many more amazing experts for help in designing a successful model for healing marriages and relationships. This journey resulted in the development of the Skills Workshops which include a wholistic, comprehensive curriculum for all people, whether single, married, divorced or widowed.

Over the last 13 years, we have seen God transform people, relationships, marriages, families, and church communities bringing healing and hope through the work of The Relationship Resource. Our programs and events are rooted in Christian fundamentals and are infused with some of the most contemporary, effective counseling and ministry models that we have identified to date. We are a small 501c-3 non-profit organization with big goals to reach communities across the United States.

Mission: to encourage the growth of healthy relationships with an emphasis on Christ-centered renewal and restoration

Vision: to transform communities through Christ centered, thriving relationships

Our Story

Our Founders

JEFF AND ROBIN REINKE - CO-FOUNDERS

Jeff is the Founder and Executive Director of The Relationship Resource and former pastor of the Marriage & Family Ministry for 30 years at North Coast Calvary Chapel located in Carlsbad, California. Jeff obtained his BA from the University of Southern California and his Masters of Marriage Family degree from Trinity Graduate School of Psychology and Masters of Education at Azusa Pacific University. At USC he received a basketball and baseball scholarship, playing in three national championships and in one USA All Star, later to be drafted by the Detroit Tigers. 

He is married to Robin Reinke, the co-director of the Restoration Therapy Center in Carlsbad, California. Together they have been married over 35 years, have two adult children and many years of hands-on experience in helping strengthen and restore marriages in the Christian community. He has written the book Badly Broken and Deeply Loved

In the last 15 years through The Relationship Resource he has been serving the local churches by creating and presenting a Love-Based Discipleship Curriculum called MenSkills, WomenSkills and MarriageSkills.  Over 10,000 people have taken the curriculum in roughly 25 churches now expanding outside of San Diego.  He is seeing a movement of the Holy Spirit  in bringing renewal and healing to individuals and marriages. 

To contact Jeff please email jeff@therelationshipresource.org

Our Team

  • Ron Bailiff

    ADMINISTRATION
    FACILITATOR SUPPORT

    I joined the family at TRR because of the enormous impact the MenSkills & Marriage Skills workshops had on my life. After leaving my 30-year career with the San Diego Police Department I was left with considerable pain and trauma. It was through the Skills program that I saw restoration in my life, marriage and family, all thanks to the wonderful relationship I have with Jesus Christ.

    I have been married to my wife Frances for 24 years and we have three children.

    To contact Ron please email ron@therelationshipresource.org

  • Allison Revier

    MARRIAGE GETAWAY COORDINATOR

    Allison Revier is passionate about encouraging and connecting marriages toward intimacy, joy and laughter. She is a leader with strong administrative skills, enthusiast, empathic, and openly thankful for the daily practice of Restoration Therapy in her life. Allison attended UCSB and received a BA in Sociology, where she met her husband, Rory.

    Allison and Rory were both born and raised in Southern CA, and currently reside in Cardiff by the Sea with their 4 young children.

    To contact Allison please email at allison@therelationshipresource.org

  • Rory Revier

    DIRECTOR OF DONOR GUIDANCE

    Rory Revier incorporates Restoration Therapy daily into his life. He attended UCSB and received a BA in Business and Economics. Professionally, Rory has an expertise in analyzing the operational and financial aspects of businesses, and has owned and operated businesses for the last 10 years.

    Rory and his wife Allison were both born and raised in Southern CA, and currently reside in Cardiff by the Sea with their 4 young children.

    To contact Rory please email rory@therelationshipresource.org

Check Out Our App

For ease of donating and registering for workshops from your phone, you can download The Relationship Resource App!

Although we are not a church, we are a non-profit that utilizes The Church Center App as our application software.

On your smart phone, download The Church Center app.

You can do this by clicking the button below or by searching “The Church Center” in the App Store.

Once downloaded, you’ll need to find The Relationship Resource on The Church Center app.

Click “search manually” and you’ll be taken to a page to search by zip code. Enter “92003” where it asks for the zip code and hit “search” in the top right corner.

Now you’ll need to set “The Relationship Resource” as your “church”.

Scroll the list of options within that search zone to find The Relationship Resource. When you click it, an option will appear. Select “This is my church”.

Provide the app with some simple information to register you as the user.

You’ll need to enter basic information like your name, phone number, and email address to register yourself as the user of the app. This information will only be used for relevant correspondence and registration information.

Begin to use the app for all your TRR registration, calendar, and donating needs!

Once you’re done downloading and registering the app, you’ll be able to find information for all our available workshops, register for workshops, donate, and view our calendar!